Ok, ok, I haven’t been here in a little while. God and I have been wrestling with some things and I didn’t quite know how to put it into words. Just a few weeks ago, I was in excruciating pain and feeling like there was no end in sight. I hadn’t been out of the house to do anything fun in a long time. I kept saying “no” to the invitations of friends and family. I was in a very, very low spot.
Then I got the chance to do something I’d never done before. Attend a White Tie Fundraising Gala for National Jewish Hospital. I’d passed on the first email sent by the administrator of my department at Children’s Hospital because I figured I’d never find a date or a dress – and figured there was a good chance I’d be hurting too much to go anyway. Then the second email came, saying that most of the seats were still available and at $500 a plate, the department REALLY didn’t want them to go unused. So I took a chance, im-ed my friend Kyle (who actually OWNS a tux), and accepted two of the seats.
My sweet friends, whom I’d been neglecting, offered me formal dresses and gowns they had in their closets, and I found a dress that I LOVED. Brilliant red, floor length and flowy. Just gorgeous. I found the perfect pair of shoes on sale and a matching bag at Ross for $5. The ball was amazing – so decadent – and I felt like a princess. Plus, I enjoyed the company of my date and the coworkers we shared the table with.
As I was driving home I had an epiphany. I can actually LIVE. I don’t have to focus on simply surviving – yeah some days suck – but there is so much out there to experience. And that I really am strong enough to do it. I realized that while God had been telling me to “wait” for a really long time, waiting didn’t need to be so lonely and miserable.
Following this epiphany God finally told me that some of my waiting is over. I have been approved to have an experimental treatment for my pain. It would have been prohibitively expensive without my insurance but they are going to cover it. I will go in on April 3rd for a one-week trial and if it is sucessful will have surgery a little later in the month to have the device permanently implanted. This has the potential to give me 100% pain relief. I’m not even sure what that would really be like anymore, but it sounds awfully good.
And on top of that fabulous news – I’m in the early stages of a new relationship with a really great guy. More on that another time.
God is SO good